Tonight I tucked the kiddos in and within minutes my oldest son, Ben, was asking if he could read a book downstairs on the couch while I was doing my thing {which tonight involved organizing recipes and making some strawberry infused vodka – yum}. I immediately said, “No, it’s time for bed” but I quickly retracted that statement for two reasons. A) He wanted to read — why would I shut that down? and B) He wanted to be close to me. OK, insert mommy tears here!! So he curled up on the couch, read a little out loud to me and giggled while reading. Priceless! Then once he read a bit he asked if he could just hang out and talk to me. Wow. Flattery gets you far!
He ended up helping me organize clipped recipes and we just chatted away. I usually relish the time I get to myself after the kids are in bed but this rare night of my 8 year old wanting to hang out with me was one I will remember for a very long time. It feels like his attitude had gotten bigger as of late and I have definitely noticed that the moments when it is just him and I, are the smoothest between us. It’s a fine line between being a parent and being a friend. I do want my children to always be able to talk to me and I think fostering this in any way you can is HUGE. Every time he has a crush on a girl, he tells me. I don’t tease or make a big deal of it. I just listen. I try and teach lessons whenever I can without seeming preachy. I wanted to share my night with you — to remind you to take moments, the unplanned ones are often the most special.
As much as you may make me crazy, I adore you and who you are!! Thanks for letting me hang out with you tonight.
Love,
Mommy
















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